Lovers are the two strangers who come from different places and families and have some things in common as well as variable interests or hobbies. Being lovers is the prelude of marriage. But between lovers, what is the most important?

The answer should be “mutual trust”, that is the two trust each other as the most sincere companion on the foundation of mutual understanding within them. As a result of this, “lie” is generally regarded as the foe of trust. And if a man or a woman lies to his or her lover, the other will sensitively fell that she or he is cheated by “my dearest”, and the tie between them will be gradually damaged since that. That is the end, which no one is willing to see. Secondly, as a saying concludes, there will be more lies by a person to cover his first lie. It has the same thing between lovers. As in this case, a vicious circle will come into being — the two will lie to each other to maintain their relationship, but in v

ain.However, lies between lovers do occur in daily life. Why is that? In my opinion, firstly, it is necessary for people (the individuals) in modern society to have moderate privacy of their own. So lovers sometimes have to lie in order to keep a private room for them. Secondly, there are also “white lies” between lovers by which the lovers show their care and love or convey some funs to their darling. We sometimes come across this and practice it, don’t we? Thirdly,nowadays we pl

ay different role and shoulder different responsibilities under the increasing pressure, and people try to “double the happiness and half the sorrow”. For instance, the young girl may lie to her lover, a soldier in the frontier, that his family is all-OK but in fact it is not. But it is relative and should not be encouraged.

Meanwhile, there is a very interesting phenomenon between lovers. It is so-called “lies of enantiosis” which express the different or opposite meaning to the literal expressions. For example, “Zhutou”, “Fool you are! “You boring (naughty) guy!” etc., are actually to say “my baby”, “You are lovely!” and “I like you!” or of the like. Such lies of humor and love are the flavoring between lovers and can make their love more colorful, light-hearted and steadily.

There are two lovers who live in different cities and have few chances to see each other. On a very early morning, the boy came to the city the girl live in without any hint in advance; moreover, the boy made up some lies to his lover so as to conceal his abrupt trip plan in the last night. Would the girl feel furious about her hurry preparation and her missing of receiving his lover? I don’t think so. The modern people do need sincere surprise, and it sometimes really owes to lies.

To conclude, lie is not good but inevitable between lovers, and we’d treat itcorrectly. There are some advice: first, we can’t make up lies to each other on a selfish or baleful purpose like to cover up one’s shortcomings or bad deeds, since we have got our lover as the most precious. The second is: we must not tell lies to lovers on the significant matters, which concern our principles or believes they share. After all, being lovers is not just a pastime, gambol or recreati

on. The third and last one is: if we did lie to our lover accidentally, we’d make some compulsory explanation and avoid copying the similar mistake in future.

Might lies lie by lovers’ life sometimes, but they must cherish their love in deed.